My ex is takin me to court for access that he already has ! We been split up a year , together for 10 , although Neva lived together, he stayed once in blue moon , as soon as he met his partner, all his demands came in , I asked him to build it up slow as children hardly new him , I hardly sleeepin over worry of court , as u can imagine he made me out to be a horrible , my interests is just the children and doin it at there space , I have to convince my daughter age 4 to go as she really doesn't want to , I don't no y he takin me to court , he has them every other weekend , my son every wed nite for football and sat for matches , when footba finished he has the children wed nite for tea, I offered a different nite for tea which he ignored me , I'm up against a brick wall , and I'm so scared of goin to court, don't want to lose my children