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What to do?

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icewind · 16/02/2019 14:27

Hi,

I have an issue going on at the moment and not sure what to do. I have a contact order and should of had my two boys last night. All communication goes through my exs dad which has generally been good. However yesterday I got told my oldest was ill. This was followed up by a message saying he was going to hospital for tests. I heard nothing else and rang the hospital to get some information where they tracked them down and I got a small update about things I hadn't been told before. He has had diarrhea for a fortnight and passed blood and been to see Dr's. I never get ,told anything though so first I knew.

Since then I have heard nothing. The hospital has said my son is no longer an inpatient there but have had no communication since as to whether he is OK and what is going on with my contact. Really really worried and not sure what is going on as getting no information and no way for me to get anything as far as I know. As it's now also potentially a breach before my week of having my two boys when I don't get many weeks with them I don't know what to do for the best.

Can't seem to find anything out and then the issue of breached contact is big issue too..

Any advice welcome

Thanks in advance

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Nothappy16 · 16/02/2019 14:29

How often are you supposed to see him? Has your ex FIL been in touch or have you text him and no responses?

icewind · 16/02/2019 14:40

I have them every other weekend and then 4 full weeks in the year. I have sent 3 messages without any reply. Two of which were asking for an update. Tried not to bombard with messages but I am so worried

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Nothappy16 · 16/02/2019 18:33

Could you try and call the FIL to explain you’re worried. Obviously I don’t know the reasons for the order but it seems cruel for you not to have information. I hope you get some info soon.

icewind · 16/02/2019 22:03

Well I spoke to someone at the hospital and now know he is discharged and well which is good. However still not had any contact from ex FIL so no idea if/when I am seeing the boys. Might have to now look into how to proceed legally

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