FIL is in a nursing home and although he doesn't have a dementia diagnosis, he is regularly very confused.
He has a friend (a young woman) who we are convinced he was giving considerable amounts of cash to her when he was living independently. He worries about how she is managing (we are worried about how to pay his nursing home fees) and has mentioned changing his will to leave her money (if there is anything left). Can he do this ? Or can we stop it through POA? She's not a good influence on him - brings him alcohol and encourages his drinking - which he shouldn't be doing.