Hi I'm a mum of 3 kids, 9, 8 and 4, after an abusive relationship we are at the court stage for overnight contact, my 9 year old has been very reluctant to stay over. We have social worker due to his 'mental state and abuse" can you give me advice on what I should expect from him. What types of things should I stipulate, I'm still very hurt and lack so much confidence at the moment with it all I'm scared of doing the wrong thing