My sister got a separation agreement in Italy. She was married to an Italian & living there with her 2 kids. He was a bully & she would have signed any thing to come back to UK,with her kids. Unfortunately ,it states in the contract that she is supposed to bring her kids back to Italy ,3 times a year to see him ( even though he abuses drugs & alcohol & si controlling & manipulative.) Sh sought legal advice, in Italy , but they told her that she signed it & she must abide by it ! She has a low paid job (parttime) & in receipt of child & working tax credits.