My husbands brother met his partner when they were both really young (late teens). They were together for 13 years and have 2 kids similar ages to ours. We all live in the same town. Over the years they have been off and on a lot. We have always seen the kids for birthdays, family parties, Christmas, school hols, sleepovers etc. My mother in law was always very good to the kids and would make every effort with them. My BILs partner had a bit of a troubled past and used to drink a lot at the weekends and was prone for drama/fighting with my BIL. He was no angel either and they were always arguing esp at weekends. Every time they fell out his partner would phone/text my mother in law and make threats and tell her if she didn't sort out her son then she wouldn't get to see the kids. This went on for years and my MIL tried her best to speak to my BIL and then they would usually make up again and it would all be forgotten. Now it seems they have permanently split up. My BIL has been out of the house for a few months and he has met someone else but it is very early days. He has got himself in a more steady place and has been working away with his job where he has good prospects. He has financially supported his partner for the past 13 years as she has never worked. Now he is going to pay her maintenance every week which seems to be the main thing she is concerned about. Our main concern is getting to see the kids and also for my MIL to get to see them as she adores them and has always kept up a good relationship with them. Do any of you have any advice? I think he will have rights for regular access ? Thanks! Xxx