I have recently been to court and have an arrangement order and the children are currently seeing their dad at a contact centre for two hours every Saturday, my query is with where I stand if the children were to tell him of activities their involved with at school (outside of school hours) and local events we may be attending, what if he just turns up as its public event but outside of his order? The reason being, my youngest is taking part in a performance at the school fete straight after contact finishes this Saturday and it's a possibility that he will turn up just to make me feel uncomfortable.
TIA