i divorced my exh 4 years ago and have since remarried. It wasn't an awful marriage, just very cold and it was a relief to be out of it. I left him with the house, I took the 2 children and ran. I didn't contribute any further to the mortgage but as part of the informal 'deal' he didn't pay anything towards the children.
Anyway we sold the house I took less as it was the only way he'd agree to the sale. We never had a financial settlement even though my solicitor very much encouraged me to do so. I was a sahm for much for the marriage and therefore didn't accrue much of a pension.
My question is have I left it too late to go back to court to ask for some of his pension? Would it be wrong of me given I have remarried? Kids are now 17 and 18.