Long story short... I split with my controlling ex during pregnancy, and he didn't attend the birth or birth registration (he had already got with someone else 
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since then he has had contact a few times. It went pear shaped a few times where i had to stop contact. (He was playing alot of i love you/i love you not/everythings your fault/youre nuts mind games and i couldnt cope with seeing him) contact started again because he pleaded he had no money for a contact centre (even though he went on holiday to magaluf), and i felt i had to for my son's sake. Last contact was 2 weeks ago he hasnt requested contact again yet.
Ive booked a holiday abroad for a week, as i feel i need it- my older sons are autistic, ive had two close family members die and im having tests done for cervical cancer as i have high grade dysplasia. Im exhausted. But i know that when i tell ds's dad, he will go ballistic and i will get a barrage of abuse and allegations from him, hes likely to attempt to sabotage my holiday somehow.
Where do i stand legally? He doesnt have PR as he didnt attend the reg office and therefore not on the bc. But is there anything he could do such as prohibited steps order etc or anything to prevent me getting a passport for ds or something? May sound paranoid but he really does go batshit crazy over things like this and dont care how low he sinks to get his way.
I just need to know what to expect as he does have the right to know where his ds is. He would find out anyway.