Ive been stung AGAIN by a solicitor and dv helpline. I apply(last December)on police advice and for mine and my children's safety for a non molestation order. They assure me I am entitled to legal aid. Of course I go through with it and order is granted for 12 months. Meanwhile the legal aid agency ask for every piece of info about my income etc etc etc (im a single working parent with no savings and no one one to bail me out) . It takes them until today to tell me Im now required to pay £417 PER MONTH to keep the order valid. I've cancelled it. I still have to pay one month. So 400 out of pocket and no order in place. I work my arse off to keep me and my two children off the breadline but when I meed protection against an abusive ex partner (who incidentally neither sees nor provides for his children) I am lied to by the dv helpline and left at the mercy of solicitors and legal aid agency.. my advice is Dont go ahead with a non molestation order unless you can afford it. Im watching my back and scared to death again. If he comes near me or my children I wont be responsible for my actions .