Will try to make this succinct. Had a short relationship back in 2005 which resulted in DD. Ex partner paying CS monthly. He has no contact with DD as his wife was, I felt, a danger to DD - stabbed out eyes in photos of DD and shoved them through my letter box etc (he said he'd never wanted contact with her anyway). FFWD several years and I'm in a new relationship and expecting 2nd DC. I've just checked FB on a whim (rarely use it) and he's asking for a contact email address for me. We live in a small town, so am assuming ex has realised I'm preggers and therefore feels he doesn't need to pay CSA anymore for DD. Where do I stand in relation to this? I feel sick as I don't want ANY contact with them - particularly his vile wife. I've emailed back telling him to write to me c/o my home address as I don't feel it appropriate to give him my email. Help anyone? 33 weeks pg and stressing.