I have just discovered my husband has been betraying me for at least 2 years. He does not know that I have busted him. Is there any legal stuff I should find out before approaching him? We rent the house. The business is off shore out of British jurisdiction. 2 kids. Is it possible to forgive and forget such a huge thing? I have been in deep shock for 2 weeks now. I did suspect but was in denial and loved him, still do. But it has not been a happy few years.