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Can the CSA tell Lo's dad?

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CheckedPjs · 03/12/2013 18:26

Can the CSA tell LO's dad if I've changed our surname? Lo's dad is ordered no contact and I've done this to protect us

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Fuckityfuckers · 03/12/2013 18:31

It will most likely be on the paperwork they send him.

Does if he have pr? Tbh even if he has there isn't a lot he can do about it really . we don't have official permission to change my dcs names but the judge said he wouldn't stop us from using their 'new' surname on anything other than passports.

CheckedPjs · 03/12/2013 18:34

Currently I hold all the BC with him not listed, so I have changed it legally and it's been accepted however I don't want LO's dad to find out. I will most likely withhold from telling them so he doesn't find out. LO always had my surname and never his dad's I haven't got married but changed it by Deedpoll

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Fuckityfuckers · 03/12/2013 18:36

Ah I see.

I don't know, the csa are a bit crap, if it's important that he doesn't find out I would consider not asking for maintenance.

I wouldn't trust them not to cock up and give him names and addresses.

CheckedPjs · 03/12/2013 18:41

I think it's safer if I don't tell them Hmm They know not to give him my address as I moved for safety. It's hard

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Fuckityfuckers · 03/12/2013 18:44

Best of luck with it all.

You are doing an amazing job.

CheckedPjs · 03/12/2013 19:09

Thank you

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