How do I get him to leave fir a few days.

[CattyBrown]

I am not going into details at the minute as I am all at tens and twos.

Tomorrow I am going to ask DH to leave for a while as I need space and time to think about our relationship. I don't think he is going to go without a fight.

Does anyone have any clues/ideas as to what I can do.

If he is at fault then hopefully he will be reasonable. Will it be out of the blue?

If you think he will be angry- have a relative or friend in another room.

If you think he will be upset - have a defined time that you will agree to meet up and discuss stuff. Don't leave him hanging ESP if its mutual or not his fault.

It is most definitely all his fault. Pissed up etc. We have been going through a bad patch and thought we were coming out of the other side until this.

I think it will be out of the blue, he won't remember half of what he's said/done.

I've even taken my wedding rings off.

Why don't you move out?