I posted this in Chat yesterday and received some useful replies (thank you) but was also advised to re-post here, so here goes.
DH and I need to make wills as we married a few years ago. We each have our own house which we owned before we met. We have no children & won?t be having any. I am an only child with parents in their 70?s who are financially ok and I have no other relatives I would want to leave money to. DH has grown up siblings who both have teenagers. Here is the conundrum: who to leave our money to? We would like to leave it to each other but once DH dies I don?t want what was mine going to his siblings or their children. Not much point leaving it to my parents as barring incident or accident I will probably outlive them. Just wondered if anyone else is in a similar position to me and what you did? TIA