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Where would he stand?

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xmasevebundle · 10/08/2012 22:52

Me and my ex broke up when i was roughly 8weeks.

Since then its been hell.

His own mother threatend to stab the baby out my womb. He threatend to take full custody, She came up to me whilst at the bus stoo and said you treat my son like a cunt.

I RUN home crying shaking and i was about 16w pregnant.

Had arguements over facebook private message ive kept them.

He hasnt asked if he has a son or daughter i had a scan on tuesday.

He said he will pay for the baby but does not want to be involed its in life.

I dont have a problem with that.

Ive gave gim chance to sort it out with me for the baby not me(i dumped him). The baby is innocent but i do feel there IS danger to my baby.

If we do go court where will this stand?

His mother has been in lots of different mental homes and has even been sectioned over 10 times.

I never go out alone now i feel very scared to walk to the bus stop. Im either with a family memeber or i just said cooked up in the house.

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NickNacks · 10/08/2012 22:54

I don't understand the question ?

xmasevebundle · 10/08/2012 23:05

If he took to me court where would he stand i forgot to put it in Blush

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Olympia2012 · 10/08/2012 23:09

He would get access. What has he done wrong?

FYP · 10/08/2012 23:11

Took you to court for what? Full custody (now called residency) ?

Well he'd have a job to get that, likewise you wouldn't be able to withhold reasonable contact from him because his mum swore at you.

NickNacks · 10/08/2012 23:16

But you said he will pay for the baby but wants nothing to do with it. Egg will he take you to court?

NickNacks · 10/08/2012 23:16

Why not egg!

xmasevebundle · 10/08/2012 23:19

Hes done nothing wrong to me towarda being pregnant.

He has hit me before and punched me to miscarry? All on doctors notes, why i left him before he did it again.

Its not the swearing its the threat towards my child she has made!? So when he gets to take the child out and his mum sees the baby?

She hears voices, shes crazy.

She will harm the baby in her eyes her boy cant do no wrong?

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xmasevebundle · 10/08/2012 23:19

He dont want to see the baby but hes a sly vindictive bastard.

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Olympia2012 · 10/08/2012 23:22

Well, wait and see what he does

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xmasevebundle · 11/08/2012 17:21

We are not married nor will be on the BC.

If i was to go for full custody how could i do it?

I no csa will do a DNA but when it comes back his does he get rights or will he have to take me to court??

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