Morbid I know but the thought of this is worrying me.
PIL have an abusive relationship themselves and I believe they abused DH as a child.
Is there anything I can do to legally prevent my PIL caring for my DC if anything happens to me?
I trust my DH to look after DC if I wasn't here but I know he would happily leave DC in there care.
He makes excuses for the things they've done and insists he was a naughty child and deserved it.
Is there anything I can do, just myself without involving DH, to ensure that if I die before DC turn 18 that they cannot be left in the care of PIL?
The only evidence I have of what they did is things they themselves have said happened and things DH has told me.
I can stop them being alone with DC while I'm around but I worry about what would happen if something terrible happens and I can't be there.
I can't tell DH about this. Is there anything I can do?