mostly curious as not sure I can convince dh just yet, but why is 3 so much harder than 2? For us 0-1 was very difficult. Lots of reasons there, probably not helped by ds having additional needs. Due to that, the jump from 1-2 has been incredibly easy in comparison! Age gap is 4 years. With another 4 year gap, is 3 still so much harder?
Also what car do you get? That’s what I can’t work out!
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Why are three so much harder than 2?
Newsenmum · 18/02/2024 23:25
NewName24 · 18/02/2024 23:38
It isn't.
I found 0 - 1 very hard.
1 - 2 a breeze in comparison
2 - 3 easiest of all.
theduchessofspork · 18/02/2024 23:55
You can’t man mark
Also that’s an eight year gap between fort and last? Which means they will be at v different life stages which doubles up your taxi-ing duties
DonnatellaLyman · 18/02/2024 23:52
2-3 is soooo much easier than 1-2 (or 0-1)
when they are older lots of things are more expensive - holidays, ticket offers etc are often geared up for 2 kids. Getting car seats in is annoying, but maybe better with 4y age gaps.
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Louoby · 19/02/2024 09:42
I have currently a 8 year old, 3 year old and a 21 month old.
0-1 hard
1-2 easy (bigger gap)
2-3 awful, hard and just life changing! lol
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ItsAllAboutTheDosh · 19/02/2024 11:25
I come from a family of three which is obviously different to being a parent. But issues were one being left out a lot. And family outings were hard as everyone liked different things.
You would have a 5 year old, 9, and 13 year old. Hard to find places they will all enjoy.
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