Hi all I guess I want to vent because I have had enough and I'm now sat on the sofa in a silent rage eating grated cheese.
So a long story short I had an argument with my partner because his sisters accommodation let her down before her visit to London and she needed somewhere to stay and I said she couldn't stay with us.
Now firstly I would have normally said yes but we live in a small home and i am unwell. The only place we have to offer her would be a small sofa and I feel bad and we are an hour away from where she needed to be. He asked his mum who lives in a large house with just her husband that has 3 annex also on her property. She said yes. However 15 minuets before his sister arrived (half sister different mum) called and said no she didn't make the beds and was to tired to make them so she cant stay.
So I said I would pay for her to stay in a hotel near us as i felt guilty and also sick.
He then phoned his grandmother who is lonely and said yes she can stay with me. It was all sorted.
He then went to drop her off and stayed in his nans 2nd spare room to drop her to the train station in the morning.
Morning time came and he is furious as I was up all night sick and asked him please don't bring her back here as I'm a mess and dd had a late night.
He went on a rant at me I got upset and said ok I will close myself in the bedroom and you can both spend the day here if she isn't going to London anymore.
He said no and went on a mad rant saying my family wouldn't welcome to visit anymore and I'm disgusting for doing this. My family have always been kind to him so it was so uncalled for.
He came and picked up dd along side his sister and mum to go for a walk.
Later hos mum messaged me saying she was concerned and to call me. Dd told me she heard nanny talking about me on the walk and was cross with nanny. I have had countless problems with his family they are so so difficult and mean.
So I phoned her. She started to tell me how I looked a mess when answering the door. And I'm weak for crying. And weak for being ill and catching bugs that return home from the nursery. She said I need to speak to someone and seek help about crying as I ahould be like her as she never cries. She has constabtly put me down then always tried to sugar coat it. She patronises me and has a really big ego. She has a very well paid job and always being headhunted. But her past is not the best so I dont know why she always belittles me. Anyway I'm just so annoyed about it as she pops up every now and then but always has to try to massively put me down and convince me I'm basically a weak useless person. Grinds my gears and makes me eat grated cheese and watch awful TV 
anyone else have a mean mother in law