3 under 2

[Houserenoqueen]

Help. I’ve been feeling odd and had messed up cycles for a few months. I had an internal scan last month and that didn’t show anything - just did a pregnancy test I had in a drawer and it’s positive.

I had 14mo twins and would love a third BUT planned end of next year/ 2023 to give a 2.5/3 year age gap. As things stands there would be a 22 month gap. Has anyone done this/ got any advice. Please be gentle, I wanted to be delighted when this happened but it feels too soon and I’m panicking. Worried I won’t cope, worried people will judge me etc.

Congratulations!

I have no advice, except that even if its awfully hard work for a while, I imagine they'll all have such fun together in future years.

I have 2 year old twins. I bumped into a woman last week who said she conceived 8 months after her twins were born. She said definitely stressful but she felt a 3rd sibling really balanced things up.

Please try not to stress, these things have a tendency to work out.

Oh and congratulations 🥳 it’s lovely news