Ever since I was young I always wanted a large family, my husband only wanted 2 kids. It took us a long time (7 years) to get pregnant with number 2 and when she was born I immediately wanted number 3, however as I'm somewhat overweight (and have pcos) and am still breastfeeding I haven't had any periods and don't think I will for a while, we haven't been using any protection so he knows the risk but everytime I bring it up he either says he doesn't know, once we've both lost weight, not right now or once I've got a job (currently a sahm).
Should I try and lose some weight and hopefully get pregnant quicker than last time or should we wait until he definitely wants a third?
He's worried about money but I would get a job once our youngest is in school (possibly once it's in pre-school) and I know kids cost money but I really don't think the baby stage does (especially as we currently have everything and would only need a few new clothes if we wanted them)
Am I being selfish by trying to get him to answer when he isn't ready to decide?