My husband and I had sex right when I was ovulating. We used a condom that we'd opened about a week previously. We'd been drinking and we don't have sex very often as we're usually too tired, but we were kids free at this time. (we have 5 kids) Anyway, he ejaculated but carried on going and the condom came off inside me. Which he then pulled out. The next morning we had sex again with a condom. We then had sex again about half hour later without a condom but he didn't ejaculate inside me. He didn't pee in between. I'm now panicking I could be pregnant. I'm about 4 dpo and have been having some light cramping for the last two days and backache today. These have been pregnancy symptoms for me in the past. I'm 39 and took around 4 months to conceive my last two children when we were actively trying. My youngest is 18 months.
I know it's a possibility that I could be pregnant but I'm thinking that I'm too old and that the chances are pretty slim. I'm worried because I said I didn't want anymore children and I know we should've been more careful but I guess we got caught up in the moment. What are your thoughts?