I am very keen on baby number 2. Husband not as keen (!). We both know that we want 2 children eventually but at the moment we are doing a lot of building work and husband doesn't want additional stress of worrying about me in pregnancy/looking after DD if I'm ill/tired while he is also trying to do some DIY. My question is regarding what to do to almost distract myself until the time comes that he agrees to TTC because at the moment I feel like life is on pause and all I can think about is when we can start trying. There are a lot of things people suggest to do before baby1 but what would you recommend making the most out of or doing before baby2 arrives? I know people say 2 makes life a bit more difficult so what would you have as your 'bucket list' before 3 becomes 4? Money is a bit tight with the building work so unfortunately suggestions can't include going away on holidays which would have been my first thought!