After years of wanting #4 dh agreed to start ttc last summer (youngest was 6 at that point). I foolishly thought it would happen reasonably quickly as had my previous DC, I’d just turned 38.
I finally got a bfp in April but lost it 4 days later, hoped I’d fall again quickly but no luck last month. This month DH has been ill for 4/6 days of my fertile window, proper d&v ill so I can’t even say man up 😂 so I don’t think we are in with a chance at all this month. We only managed it once 5 days before.
So next month marks a year of trying, anyone else in a similar position? I’m torn between feelings of just give up as the gap is too big, and can’t bear to give up just yet...