I have 4 of my own dc, aged 12,11,9 and 7. They have one father, my ex husband. I remarried three years ago and of late, my DH and I have begun discussing having a fifth for me, first for him.
I thought I was finished with babies after my fourth but I understand that even though he loves my four and is great with them, he would still like one of his own.
Situation currently, I work full time as a manager. He works for a catering company as and when required and works around the school hours of my four.
I am slowly coming round to the idea of a fifth, however there is a large age gap between my youngest and a huge one between my oldest.
For those with more than four that planned their fifth, how did you get to the point of deciding to go for it?