Really fed up and would like some opinions.
I am a recently single mum to 4dc ds1 (13) dd1(12) ds2 (5) dd2 (nearly 2).I have a 3 bedroom house but have turned dining room into a bedroom.At the moment ds1 and dd2 both have their own rooms and 4 months ago dd2 moved from my room to share a room with ds2.Ds2 has very bad behaviour,goes to sleep fine when had his own room but him sharing is just not working,i am so fed up of every bedtime being a battle dragging on till gone 9pm every night and half the time me ending up with dd2 in my bed half the time.
I have thought about this for a long time and have decided that now ds1 and ds2 should share,which would have happened in the long term when ds2 and dd2 became to old to share,of course this has not gone down at all well with ds1 even though i have said he can decide how the room is decorated and will give him £50 compensation,he says i have ruint his life and he will get picked on at school.
I feel like a crap mum.