pregnent....again.

[diddymiddys]

hI I HAVE 2 CHILDREN eldest been 3 youngest been 4 months and it would appear that iam pregnent again.
i am on the mini pill as iam brestfeeding my youngest and i have taken it everyday at the same time religiously as i am happy with my 2 children i was not planning for three.
so hears my problem what the hell do i do?
i can not have an abortion, i dislike the idea and iam agenst that, i know i will keep him-her and love it as much as i love the others but how the bloody hell do i tell my husband? has anyone else been in this situation? help please?

First congratulations. Be honest with DH at the earliest opportunity, it may be a shock, but no one is at fault here least of all your lovely growing baby. Have not been in this situation myself, but close friend has two DD's born 13 months apart and when her DD2 was born she was living in a hostel with shared facilities on her own. Her DD's are really sweet with each other and she manages well. Your family will adjust and find ways to cope.