Both DS1 (14) and DS2 (9) have an ASD. DS1 may not be able to live independently. I have inherited some money from my mum and want to set up trust funds for both boys (around 20k each) but don't want them to have access to the funds for any reason they see fit. DS1 recently spent £900, in five minute bursts over a single month to buy Fifa packs of virtual players
(Microsoft returned the money and I now use strict parental controls/password protect so that he can't do this again).
Can I set up a living irrevocable trust in the UK? And how would I do this? I have googled but most sites assume asset protection or tax avoidance or I get lots of info about child trust funds/ISA which is not suitable as I want to make a lump sum gift/contribution rather than monthly/yearly contributions that become available at 18 and exhausted at 19.
TIA