Subject title says it all really! He will be sent away on training, exercise, on guard etc so how do we make a contact plan???? It seems to me it will just be a case of him telling me when he can have 2.8 yo DD but what if he has been working for 3 weekends and then he has a weekend off but I have plans with DD that weekend, Cousins birthday party for example. He will be based a 5 hours drive away so cant just do a couple of hours here and there.