(Have also posted this on "What would you do?)
We and 3 DCs currently live in a spacious 5 bed detached house which we extended a few years ago.
Both DH and I do not have private pensions and aren't able to afford to pay into one so DH's idea is that we downsize and with the money thats left we invest in a buy to let.
There are also other reasons (noisy neighbours) why he, rather than me,wants to move.
We have been very spoilt with the space we have and have got very used to it. How difficult would it be to downsize?