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TTC and cut my pregnant friend off

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paigelucyxx · 26/08/2025 11:46

Hello so I have been Trying to conceive for three years and last Monday I woke up to a message off my so-called friend and she was like I got something to show you. It was her positive test. She got pregnant first try with her third. But I honestly feel like she doesn’t even deserve to be pregnant. She’s turned around to me and said I know if u was to say. You’re not jealous that I’m pregnant that would probably be a lie as I’m pregnant first try and you’ve been trying ages. She then proceeded to tell me She’s having a gender reveal test done and if it’s a boy she’s getting rid like wtf??? So she could get get pregnant like 4 times and get rid every time? Like why does it get to be so easy for her?? Oh she also isn’t telling anyone if she gets rid because she don’t want anyone to know so she would say she’s had a miscarriage when she’s had an abortion over gender!! As horrible as it sounds if she does that she is gonna get her ass beat because that’s sick, Am I in the wrong for cutting her off?

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Strawberrryfields · 26/08/2025 19:30

Why would you be in the wrong for cutting her off? This doesn’t sound like a healthy friendship so it’s best to let it go. No ass beating necessary, just block and walk away.

Myboyonlybreakshisfavouritetoys · 26/08/2025 23:02

She sounds awful!

confused2025 · 27/08/2025 05:09

I think you made the right call. She sounds vile and she shouldn’t be allowed have children. Don’t apologise for cutting toxic people out of your life x

paigelucyxx · 27/08/2025 09:48

@Strawberrryfieldsme and this girl was friends for a long time and it hurts because I thought she was a good friend

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paigelucyxx · 27/08/2025 09:49

@confused2025glad u see my pov and thank you xx

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Strawberrryfields · 27/08/2025 11:40

paigelucyxx · 27/08/2025 09:48

@Strawberrryfieldsme and this girl was friends for a long time and it hurts because I thought she was a good friend

It’s sad that it’s come to this after a long friendship but people change and it sounds like your life will be much better without her in it.

CoffeeLipstickKeys · 27/08/2025 11:45

Sometimes friendships run their course, and sometimes it transpires you don’t have common values and you drift.
Protect yourself. You don’t need to remain friends with her
Wishing you well and acknowledging you’re having a tumultuous time

paigelucyxx · 27/08/2025 12:46

@Strawberrryfields100% x

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paigelucyxx · 27/08/2025 12:46

@CoffeeLipstickKeysthank you x

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Miraclemuma03 · 28/08/2025 01:06

She sounds rotten and I would defintiely also cut her off. Im sorry she said that to you, she is very insensitive and is not thinking about you.

paigelucyxx · 28/08/2025 19:10

@Miraclemuma03thank you xx

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