Hi everyone been having a bit of a tough time, I hadn't mentioned on here but we had pursued surrogacy and both me and the surrogate got pregnant at the same time but we got some awful news yesterday and it looks like the surrogate is miscarrying, her beta has dropped and she had blood vaginal discharge, they got her in for a scan and she is measuring at 6 weeks (she is 6 weeks), there isn't much hope with the dropped beta though, she is at 2700 when they would expect 11000 and I've been told to expect bad news when they check her again on Monday. Trying to block it all out because I ended up crying all evening last night, which is not going to help my own situation. Not much new with me, symptoms come and go, no bleeding or anything so hoping this is a good sign.
@CailinInUK fantastic news, yes rest up, relax, take in nice and easy and have a chilled out weekend. That's a good pH but like you say loads going on with stims. You've just had a needle through the vaginal wall so try and avoid putting things in if you can. Are you doing banking right now rather than any transfers planned?
Hi @Spin101 remind me of your history with thin lining what tests have you done and what have you done treatment wise? My recent cycle I did well with natural modified on low dose stims.
@Loz2467 I think it's great this surgeon is on board, will it be a lap or lap + hysteroscopy, so hoping you get answers ❤️ and that's good you're thinking ahead of add ons, could you see Dr Gorgy, he will prescribe the immune treatment and you can then do your standard treatment with your clinic and have this as an add on?
For those mentioning surrogacy, I've been pursuing this now since late 2021 so do feel free to DM me. It hasn't been a easy journey, it is incredibly expensive and stressful, we have had cancelled cycles, unsuccessful cycles, as well as what is currently looking like a miscarriage, add in a lack of control and distance.