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IVF March 2023

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Katie12444 · 01/02/2023 19:25

Wanted to start a group for those who are due to start treatment in March.

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MS2692 · 04/05/2023 13:55

@Vallef oh I’m sorry you’re having bad cramps! From what I’ve seen it sounds like cramps and discharge of old blood is very common so I’d try not to worry (I know it’s so much easier said than done!) yeah the pulling sensation is so bizarre, I only have it on one side but again from what I’ve read this’s quite common! I will be 7 weeks 1 day on the 12th I’m literally counting down the sleeps until the scan 😩 it’s dragging so much!!

Vallef · 04/05/2023 14:31

@MS2692 how was your clinic have they said how long to continue the meds for? Do you know if its a single or multiple pregnancy yet? My levels at day 9 when I tested was 425 and they said it could be multiple. Am so anxious to know!!

MS2692 · 04/05/2023 14:32

@Sd183 I am so so sorry to hear this 😔 xx

Vallef · 04/05/2023 14:33

@Sd183 am so sorry hun absolutely gutted for you. Hopefully now though you can concentrate on getting back to normal and hopefully do another round soon. You know you can get pregnant so that's positive xx

MS2692 · 04/05/2023 14:36

@Vallef they said to continue the progesterone pessaries and oestrogen tablets up to 12 weeks (if all is well to then!) my beta level on 13dp5dt came back at 1158 and that’s all I had until 7w scan next Friday so I have nooo idea if levels are rising well or not I’m totally in the dark 🤷🏼‍♀️ the only thing I’ve managed to do was a digital CB test on Sunday 21st and it said “2-3weeks” and I did another one last Sunday (30th) and it said “3+weeks” which gave me a little comfort that at least levels are somewhat rising

Vallef · 04/05/2023 14:40

@MS2692 I was thinking of going to do another private blood test on Friday to make sure my levels are going up. Does a CB test add the 2 weeks as well? So for example il 5 weeks on the weekend. If I test will it say 3 weeks or the 5? If you know as knowing me il start panicking if If I see less weeks lol

MS2692 · 04/05/2023 16:08

@Vallef yeah they’re odd so if it says

1-2weeks it means 2-3weeks
2-3weeks it means 3-4weeks
3+weeks it means 4+weeks

but I just used it as it gave me comfort that the hcg rose as the thresholds are different and on Sunday 21st it was 2-3weeks and Sunday 30th it was 3+weeks which meant my hcg definitely rose as the thresholds are

1-2weeks is 10
2-3weeks is 153
3+ weeks is 2,753

hope that helps! Xx

amoobaa · 04/05/2023 16:25

@Sd183 Just wanted to say I hope you’re surrounded by love and support from people irl. Such devastating news. Do you have a follow up to ask questions and process a bit more of it all?
thinking if you.

I am still waiting for our embryo biopsy results. I’m trying so hard not to go crazy with my hopeful expectations! I’m hoping both are viable and assuming one is. I can even bring myself to type the alternative.

Sending hugs and hope to everyone xxxx

Irisjj · 04/05/2023 16:47

@Sd183 im so sorry.. this is so harsh to go through I know from experience unfortunately. Hopefully the methoxetrate takes and resolves it. Sorry for your loss. Take care and take it easy if you want to chat - let me know.

@Vallef pulling sensations are a good sign! The wait till ultrasound is nervewracking, good luck!

I have my transfer on the 11th of May. Just had my Ultrasound confirming my lining looks good for the go-ahead!

Vallef · 04/05/2023 17:15

@MS2692 good to know thanks hun!

@Irisjj thank you. That's brilliant just make sure you get your protein in take that you should daily leading up to transfer day. I think that's meamt to be really important!

Jupiteer · 04/05/2023 17:21

So so sorry to read this @Sd183 , what a painful journey you have been on. I hope you can have some time to rest and recover, and do something nice for yourself once this is all over. You deserved a much better outcome, it's very unfair 💛

amoobaa · 10/05/2023 23:08

How’s everyone getting on?

we got our results today.

Our two embryos were tested and one was abnormal… we were so hoping we would get at least one normal (viable)…

last time we got one viable and I miscarried. So I was secretly hoping for a miracle and for both to be viable… but realistically knowing we could hope for one viable, and knowing even a viable embryo may not work.

anyway, the second one is mosaic.

I need more info on this- I’ve no idea what kind of mosaic etc.

anyone else experienced this? We only have one embryo to transfer and it’s a mosaic.

off to do some more research. Feeling increasingly concerned that it won’t happen… I think we will probably go in to another round of ivf to try and get another embryo on ice, but I’m so scared of getting nothing and that being the end.

feeling quite sad. Each round seems to be getting worse and worse.

sending hugs. And hope.

Katie12444 · 18/05/2023 08:20

@amoobaa sorry for the delay in replying. I’m sorry to hear your news. I don’t know anything about mosaic embryos so will do some reading myself. Hope your clinic have been supportive x

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amoobaa · 18/05/2023 09:16

Katie12444 · 18/05/2023 08:20

@amoobaa sorry for the delay in replying. I’m sorry to hear your news. I don’t know anything about mosaic embryos so will do some reading myself. Hope your clinic have been supportive x

@Katie12444 Hey, I literally just got off the phone to our clinic. I’m currently taking medication to prep for another round.
all our scans and medications are now confirmed.

Estimated egg collection date Wednesday 7th June. But could be the Thursday or the Friday.

The clinic are great and have given us lots of information.

essentially the mosaic has a higher risk of not implanting and a higher risk of miscarriage but if it does take and if it does make it to a live birth, then we’ve been told the baby will have absolutely no greater risk of genetic abnormalities than any other pregnancy.

it’s hard to wrap my head around because on the one hand that is very reassuring (in terms of the babies health) but on the other hand, I can’t help worrying about the abnormalities they have found in some of the cells. Surely it’s not good!

basically a mosaic is one with healthy cells AND genetically abnormal cells. If (like ours) the degree of mosaicism is not too great, then the expectation is that the healthy cells will be able to override and correct the unhealthy ones.

if this doesn’t happen then you miscarry or it never implants.

if this does happen then you have a good chance for a healthy pregnancy and birth.

I do want/ need to ask about whether there is a higher risk to the placenta. But that can all wait until we are making decisions prior to transfer. So there’s time still.

Right now (although it feels a bit disloyal to our mosaic embryo!) I’m just really hoping we get a completely genetically normal embryo from our current round.

they told me that in the past mosaics were treated as abnormal but in America they started transferring them and found they can result in a healthy baby so they are now considered worthwhile transferring. However, the mosaics with a lot of abnormal cells are considered unviable. Luckily our us not as affected. They currently have a grading of low, moderate and severe. Ours falls in the low/moderate.

we have been told that soon the low and moderate mosaic embryos will be classed as ‘normal’ alongside their genetically normal counterparts… and there will be a much simpler grading system or ‘viable/ normal’ and ‘not viable’/ ‘abnormal’.

they couldn’t do this sooner because they needed to prove that mosaic embryos were safe and did not create babies with chromosomal abnormalities.

A large percentage of embryos (across natural conception and ivf) are actually mosaics… we just don’t know every tine it happens because only a small percentage of embryos are genetically tested! Like ours…

Both our embryos looked perfect (AB and BB) so if you think about it, if we hadn’t tested them, we would have transferred them both and been none the wiser.

ironically, the higher graded embryo (our AB embryo) was the abnormal one (definitely not compatible with life) it had more than one complete duplication and also deletion of whole chromosomes… yet without the genetic testing we would have prioritised it for transfer and it would have ended in miscarriage.

The BB is our mosaic (so there’s really no way of reliably predicting from the grading!) our clinic warned us that even the most perfect looking AA embryos can come back as genetically abnormal and they would not be allowed to transfer.

I guess my thinking is-

  1. I’m so glad we can genetically test so I avoided transferring that AB embryo, which would have resulted in more heartbreak and lost time…

  2. I’m happy to transfer a low risk mosaic, that has a slightly higher chance of not implanting or miscarrying… if it’s our only chance… because without the testing (which most people don’t do) we would have been advised to do so and we’d be nine the wiser about the mosaicism.

for all I know, my 2 year old son (conceived in the same way at the same clinic) might have been mosaic too… (his genetic tests showed he was a genetically normal embryo BUT they only take a few cells (from the outer cell mass, which becomes the placenta, not the inner cells which become the baby) and mosaic embryos are made up of clusters of both normal and abnormal cells, so it’s possible that the embryologist can take the sample of cells from a cluster of normal cells and then this gives a false ‘normal’ result, when in fact the overall embryo is actually mosaic. Mad.

Apparently there was a raging debate about the reliability of a test that samples placenta cells and not the actual inner cells mass, but our clinic tells us this debate is now settled and science has proven that placenta cells give a reliable result that can predict the chromosomal make up of the embryo itself.

but I guess there is still room for error because they only take a few cells to sample so it’s possible to misdiagnose embryos overall composition, based on just a few cells, given that the definition of a mosaic is that it is an embryo made up of both normal and abnormal cells. Depends which cells you sample, as to what ‘result’ you’ll get.

im sure this will all become clearer in years to come, especially as technology advances.

I just hope we get lucky. All of us 🤞🏼

deep breath.

the turnaround for my cycle has been very quick. I had a small bleed following the egg collection and one period… and now we are straight back into the next round. No time to think or breathe.

how are things your end? This is such an exhausting and emotional rollercoaster 🎢 hope you’re doing well :)

Irisjj · 22/05/2023 17:03

Just checking in - how is everyone doing? Xx

thanks for everyone their support in this journey - it means a lot!
I had my first FET on may 11th, and I’m pregnant 🎉❤️ Today my beta was 439 at 11DP5DT!

Katie12444 · 22/05/2023 20:11

@Irisjj Thats amazing news. Congrats! Can I ask what your embryo grading was? I had my appointment with the nurse today to sign my consent forms so as soon as my period comes, I’ll be starting FET. Currently two weeks late 😬😬I’m a bit nervous as we have 1 good quality embryo, 1 average (both 5 day) and 2 average 6 day. I don’t know if this is a good place to be in or if we should do another round of egg collection

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Stopthatnoisemummy · 22/05/2023 20:30

Congrats @Irisjj

@Katie12444 if they are good enough to freeze they are good enough to make a baby! Good luck with your transfer

Irisjj · 22/05/2023 20:48

@Katie12444 thanks!! My clinic is strict so they I had 4x 4BB (of which one aneuploid) 1x3BB and 1 3CB. We transferred a 4BB which is also considered average - but grading doesn’t really say that much! Good luck with prepping for your transfer ❤️❤️

Lyrabee · 22/05/2023 20:55

Congrats @Irisjj !

@Katie12444 I'm waiting for my period now to start my tablets! I'm due in a week 💛 I'm nervous about FET but also hopeful! Hope your cycle starts soon!

Katie12444 · 22/05/2023 22:31

@Stopthatnoisemummy @Irisjj thanks both, really appreciate it ❤️

@Lyrabee ahh sounds like we could be going through FET at very similar times. Are you doing natural or medicated?

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amoobaa · 22/05/2023 22:40

Irisjj · 22/05/2023 17:03

Just checking in - how is everyone doing? Xx

thanks for everyone their support in this journey - it means a lot!
I had my first FET on may 11th, and I’m pregnant 🎉❤️ Today my beta was 439 at 11DP5DT!

@Irisjj oh wow!!! Congratulations!!! That’s such wonderful news 😁 keep us updated!

amoobaa · 23/05/2023 06:39

Katie12444 · 22/05/2023 20:11

@Irisjj Thats amazing news. Congrats! Can I ask what your embryo grading was? I had my appointment with the nurse today to sign my consent forms so as soon as my period comes, I’ll be starting FET. Currently two weeks late 😬😬I’m a bit nervous as we have 1 good quality embryo, 1 average (both 5 day) and 2 average 6 day. I don’t know if this is a good place to be in or if we should do another round of egg collection

This sounds like a really really good place to be @Katie12444 ! There’s every chance the average quality ones could be amongst the best, you really never know. One of my BB’s is now a healthy 2 year old, whereas my AB turned out to be genetically unviable. I think I’ll be doing egg collection when you do transfer. Best of luck :) sending hope to everyone Xx

Lyrabee · 23/05/2023 08:46

@Katie12444 we are doing medicated. What about you? I've got estradiol tablets to start taking and I have to start cyclogest pessaries. I've got to call the clinic when my period starts so they can book me in for a scan day 11-13.

What are you doing?

I also wouldn't worry about your quality on the eggs tbh, I've seen lots of people say their quality was average/low and they've conceived. It depends on the cells itself x

MrsWatson84 · 23/05/2023 11:51

@Irisjj Great news, congratulations! Glad to hear some positive news from the original group.

Update from me - I’m on day 10 of a medicated FET cycle currently scheduled for transfer on 2nd June with a BB embryo. I had a previous FET cancelled as my progesterone level was far too low (9 when they want it over 30) 3 days before transfer so this time adding lubion injections as well as the cyclogest. Just feeling like it’s all never ending to be honest! X

Lyrabee · 26/05/2023 12:01

@MrsWatson84 fingers crossed for your transfer, when do they test your levels? I'm glad you mentioned this as my clinic said they would do a blood test to look at my levels and if they're low they'll give me injections. They made out though that it would be in the same cycle and not separate!
Can I ask what medication have you taken? I've got estradiol tablets which I'll take initially and then the cyclogest pessaries after my scan to check the lining.
In some aspects it feels more complicated on a FET but I think it's just because it's a lot of do this until unknown date then do that 😅