@Sarahk20000
Hi. I’m sorry you don’t get the support you need but you are strong. I know family don’t always get on. The important thing is not to forget about what you want in life.
It’s up to you but I don’t think your current consultant has helped you that much. I know Dr Keshadari is the best one there. It’s up to you. Argc might do more on immune testing etc. It’s good you have these options.
I’ve regretted not just doing a fresh transfer last November but the issue is now am I still doing a fresh transfer if they are frozen at day 3? Sorry my head is still going around in circles.
I agree I should be able to decide on 3 being transferred. I don’t know what else to say to my consultant. I’ve got a consultation tomorrow to go through more questions as my plan has changed so much.
@Lola245
I decided against PGS due to the fact I might not get many blastocysts. Also I was worried about what little blastocysts I get accidentally being damaged. Or sometimes there are false results. I just didn’t want to take the chance. If I knew I was going to get 7 or more blastocysts, it would be different.
I think a fresh transfer is best. CRGH can offer fresh transfers. If you don’t want to bank, Access Fertility might be an option with CRGH.
However, for me I couldn’t always guarantee I would have enough blastocysts to transfer each time. At 40 and over, you need at least 2 day 5 blastocysts if not testing. One option might be to do two cycles and do a fresh transfer on the second cycle with whatever you get at day 5. It’s up to you.
I’m doing the flare and I responded really well last time. I recommend it.
@InvisibleDreamer
Thanks for your message. I agree it is not fair but I will mention it to my consultant tomorrow. I do have day 3 reports. Did you have day 3 reports? When are you transferring? Did you have 9 cell embryos at day 3? What is strange is the embryologist does not see 8 cell as better than 9 cell at day 3. Anyway, one bonus is all of the day 3 embryos apart from one are also either grade -1 or 2+ so with little to hardly any fragmentation.
I can’t leave the clinic as I had success here with my first baby. Also, I’ve got so much stress in my life at present with my Mum and Dad’s care and health issues I can’t do anymore. I’m running out of energy to look for other clinics. The whole process is exhausting enough doing it for one child but for the second it gets more stressful.