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IVF July/August 2021

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Bethpalmer20 · 30/06/2021 08:13

Hi everyone.

I couldn't find a thread for ivf cycles July/August 2021 so I hope it's OK to start one. I was on the March/April thread for my fresh cycle and it was so nice to have support from others going through the same thing.

My fresh cycle was successful but unfortunately I miscarried at 8 weeks pregnant. We are start a frozen cycle with one of our 2 frozen embryos. Aiming to start tablets around the 10th July with the hope of transfer towards the end of July.

Would love to know if anyone else is in the same boat or has any tips!

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lauradxoxo · 16/09/2021 14:39

I know I’m so sad, naturally, but it’s one of those things, obviously not our time just need to try and remain positive.

I’m glad your doing ok honestly I found the 2WW soooo hard and I really only done 8 days!! Not long now tho got everything crossed for you xxxxxx

lauradxoxo · 16/09/2021 14:55

@chocolate336 thanks so much for that information that has definitely made me feel a bit better! You jusy put all your hopes and prayers into that wee embryo don’t you! You just wish you could tell before hand if it wasn’t going to continue to grow.

Congrats on moving house though! I know that can be a super stressful time so your probs right taking some time away from all the fertility treatments and juts get settled in then start again in new year!!

I’m sure it will all work out for us all 🥰 xxx

chocolate336 · 16/09/2021 16:13

@lauradxoxo oh you really do....I kept the scans of my little embryos by my beside...you form a little attachment! And then when the bad news comes it's really shattering! Good times are coming for us all! 🤞🏻🤞🏻❤️❤️

Janefx40 · 16/09/2021 23:26

@lauradxoxo I'm so sorry it hasn't worked out for you! It's a horrible feeling and you just need to be super nice to yourself. You already know this but you did nothing wrong at all. Just think of all the women who smoke and drink and take drugs and get pregnant all the time. Of course we try to take care of ourselves but ultimately it's about the embryo and sometimes a few other things.

Sending lots of love

@chocolate336 I saw your post on Fertility circle but didn't click that was you! Sounds like positive advice

Xxx

chocolate336 · 17/09/2021 16:38

@Janefx40 Yes I seen your question too! It's great you can ask questions etc. Thanks for telling us about it @beachbum85 👍🏼 x

beachbum85 · 17/09/2021 17:03

You're welcome! Glad it's helpful :)

Janefx40 · 17/09/2021 17:06

@chocolate336 actually not taken his advice tho! Have decided to do all the tests despite the delays. We're at the end of the road now so may as well just throw everything at it!

chocolate336 · 17/09/2021 18:30

@Janefx40 I totally understand! I would do the same....🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻 x

beachbum85 · 18/09/2021 10:35

@Janefx40 I'm glad you've taken a decision (I would do the same as well!). When can you get started with the tests? Hope you're doing well in the meantime, and everyone else too xx

Janefx40 · 18/09/2021 21:43

Hi @beachbum85 how are you feeling? Is your test day tomorrow?! 🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼

You have to do a mock cycle with the ERA so that will start with my next period. I've been tracking ovulation and it's not happened yet (cd15) so my period is looking delayed anyway but should come in early October.

Thinking of you xxx

beachbum85 · 18/09/2021 22:25

Thanks @Janefx40!! How sweet of you to remember - it is tomorrow and I'm really nervous, excited, everything... I've been pretty calm so far but now I'm kind of terrified that my bubble is going to burst!

I suppose a bit of a delay can be expected after back-to-back collections, but I hope all happens soon so you can start with the mock cycle :) xx

beachbum85 · 19/09/2021 07:01

It's a BFP for us! 😃
First ever... We're so excited!!

Janefx40 · 19/09/2021 07:31

Oh @beachbum85 that's wonderful!!! I'm so pleased for you! How did it feel to see that second line for the first time? I remember so well when I got my BFP with DD. It was such a bizarre and amazing feeling xxx

Bobtat · 19/09/2021 08:38

@beachbum85 ahhhhhhh congratulations!!! Amazing news - so happy for you guys x

beachbum85 · 19/09/2021 08:38

Thank you @Janefx40!!
It just felt so surreal, amazing for sure, but also like it was someone else's test... It's very hard to believe!

lauradxoxo · 19/09/2021 09:03

Awww @beachbum85 congratulations this is amazing news!!!! Had a good feeling for you! So happy for you both 🐝 was this your first cycle too? Xxxxxxx

SerendipitySunshine · 19/09/2021 09:36

Wonderful news @beachbum85

Janefx40 · 19/09/2021 09:50

@beachbum85 ha! It is a strange feeling but a good one. Try to enjoy it and have a wonderful day xxx

chocolate336 · 19/09/2021 09:53

@beachbum85 ahhhh amazing news 😊👏🏻 x

beachbum85 · 19/09/2021 10:22

Thank you so much @SerendipitySunshine and @lauradxoxo - very glad your feeling was right :)

This was our second cycle, we had a failed fresh transfer in March with no frosties, so we started from scratch again this time. I hope next time is your time too xx

beachbum85 · 19/09/2021 10:23

Thanks @chocolate336 and @Janefx40!
Definitely a really good feeling I want to hang on to for as long as possible :)

Bethpalmer20 · 19/09/2021 11:24

Amazing news @beachbum85 so so happy for you. I just knew it would be BFP ❤️ now wishing you a happy and healthy pregnancy ❤️

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Reefy · 19/09/2021 11:49

@beachbum85 congratulations!

beachbum85 · 19/09/2021 22:48

Thank you @Reefy and @Bethpalmer20! ❤️
I really appreciate it and I hope it's your time soon too xx

chocolate336 · 03/10/2021 11:15

Hey everyone! Hope all well! I just wanted to ask has anyone had thyroid issues? When I had my bloods done with my private clinic nothing came up. My NHS doctor was just doing a review with me and said my thyroid was 3.2....he wants them rechecked. Said he isn't concerned about it but maybe thought about starting me on thyroxine if I needed too. Now I'm worried....might be having an FET in nov/dec if I feel up to it but now I'm worried about my thyroid Confused x