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TWW Jan/Feb 2020

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41trying · 20/01/2020 18:01

This is for ladies in there TWW that would like to chat and have a little support!

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BambiOnIce80 · 03/02/2020 07:40

Really sorry to hear about your mum @Haych1985, but hoping they've caught it early on and can kick it's ass 💪🤞Did you manage to hold until your DH got home?x

Itchy nips don't sound like the most comfortable thing in the world @Chooklass! 😂 I'm hoping they're a good sign 🤞🍀🤞🍀

Haych1985 · 03/02/2020 08:38

Negative Crown Saddon't think it's gonna be my year xxx

Chooklass · 03/02/2020 09:36

@Haych1985 I'm so sorry 💐. Do you have any other rounds or fet planned? Xx

Haych1985 · 03/02/2020 09:57

We had no Frosties, we will have one more round before having to accept it's not ment to be xx

FlapJackered · 03/02/2020 10:09

@Haych1985 I am so sorry 💐 look after yourself x

BambiOnIce80 · 03/02/2020 10:09

I'm so sorry @Haych1985 💙 I hope you get your next cycle in soon and that this year actually will be your year 🤞🍀🤞🍀

twinkleyes35 · 03/02/2020 10:24

@Haych1985 so sorry dear . Don't loose hope and be strong. You had lot to deal with and stress is big factor .

Hope your next try will be positive 🤞🤞

UnicornPuff · 03/02/2020 10:48

@Haych1985 I am so sorry to hear your news. Look after yourself today.

Viletta · 03/02/2020 11:08

@Haych1985 sorry to hear about your news.. hope next time will work!

Wimbledon1 · 03/02/2020 14:35

Oh no, @Haych1985 I'm so so sorry to read all of this. What a horrible time of it you are having. Sending you hugs and lots of good wishes for your Mum. Later in the year, when she has kicked cancer's butt, you can try again at a less stressful time and I really hope this will be your time xx

Sarab2020 · 03/02/2020 15:35

So sorry to hear your news @Haych1985 💐

QuantumGirl · 03/02/2020 18:19

Sorry to hear it's negative @Haych1985 😢💐💔

HJF84 · 03/02/2020 19:05

I'm so sorry @haych1985 - I wish you all the best for your next cycle.

It's a BFN for me too. I still need to go into the clinic for the blood test but the HPT I just took was glaringly obvious. We've used all our Frosties so it's back to another fresh cycle for us.

Thanks for all your support over the last two weeks. Good luck to all those testing this week, and I wish all those who got their BFPs a healthy and happy pregnancy x

twinkleyes35 · 03/02/2020 19:32

Oh no so sorry to hear your news @HJF84 good luck with your next cycle x 🤞🤞

Wimbledon1 · 03/02/2020 19:34

Very sad to hear this @HJF84
I hope that they get you back up onto a fresh cycle quickly and you can try again soon. X

twinkleyes35 · 03/02/2020 19:34

I am getting nervous for OTD tomorrow but would also be eagerly waiting for your results too @Sarab2020 . Fingers cross for both of us and lots of baby dust for both of us x 🤞🤞🤗💕x

twinkleyes35 · 03/02/2020 19:35

Anyone else has OTD tomorrow or testing tomorrow x?x

Stace999 · 03/02/2020 19:52

Hey there I've been on the IVF Jan/Feb thread but had transfer today so guess I'm now in the TWW. We had a rollercoaster week. 9 eggs 7 fertilised day 3 was great 3 looking good, 2 a bit behind and 2 slow. Day 5 different story, only 2 slow blastocyst so decided to put them both in. Not holding out much hope but here we are!
Congrats on the BFPs guys and I'm honestly sorry for those with BFN I have been there several times and it sucks Sad

Chooklass · 03/02/2020 19:55

Welcome aboard @Stace999 ! Two day 5 embies gives you a fighting chance - well done!!

Stace999 · 03/02/2020 20:09

Thanks @Chooklass I'm trying to be positive but finding it hard tbh we used a Sperm donor due to MFI so we were expecting better quality embryos. Just feeling a little deflated but hopefully that'll pass and we can try to be hopeful x

BambiOnIce80 · 03/02/2020 20:16

Ah dammit @HJF84 , I'm so sorry 💐 You sound like you've got your game plan lined up for that next fresh cycle and I'm keeping everything crossed for you that that cycle will be the cycle 🤞❤️

How are you feeling @QuantumGirl? I've been thinking of you.x

Welcome across @Stace999! 😊 Those 2 little embies are better off in you than in the freezer, so wishing you tonnes of luck for your TWW 🍀🍀🍀

And talking of tonnes of luck, I'll be thinking of you both tomorrow morning @twinkleyes35 @Sarab2020 and sending loads of positivity your way 💓

Two sleeps left for you @Chooklass! 🤩 How are you doing today? Have anymore plants been added to your jungle?! 🌿🌴🌵😉

Chooklass · 03/02/2020 20:18

@Stace999 It's all so tough, isn't it? I started feeling down again today because I had a day 3 transfer and the success rates are significantly less than day 5s ... once they are back in their natural environment they could really thrive though! Only two more sleeps until OTD for me and I can hardly think of anything else! 😱

Chooklass · 03/02/2020 20:19

@BambiOnIce80 I 'rescued' a little leafy plant when doing my Tesco shop last night! 😂🙈🌿

Stace999 · 03/02/2020 20:33

@Chooklass it's so tough isn't it, sometimes a day 3 transfer is the best option and there are plenty of day 3 transfers running around or keeping their parents awake! I guess we just have to trust our clinics judgement. I find the last few days of the TWW the hardest so near and yet so far!
Our day 5s were apparently looking pretty bad yesterday but had picked up significantly this morning so we are clinging on to that. They aren't even at grading stage yet though so it's not an ideal situation.

MrsLouB · 03/02/2020 20:40

Hi can i join please. Had 2nd transfer frozen on the 29th so currently 5dp5dt xz