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We need an 'anonymous' egg donor/egg share Liverpool Women's Hospital,I'm a private patient.Can anyone help?

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tw33qj60 · 04/08/2015 20:03

Hello! My husband and I have been trying for a baby for nearly five years. We had a course of IVF few months ago but unfortunately my eggs did not respond as they should have and were advised we would need to use donor eggs.
We are on a waiting list at Liverpool's Hewitt Centre,We have been advised that the best way to speed things up would be for us to find our own donor. Our preference is for an anonymous donation so we were wondering if there is anyone out there thinking of egg donation/egg sharing who would be willing to help us out?

We are paying for the treatment so if you are between 21 and 35 years old want to go through privatly financed IVF and willing to share the eggs you will get help towards your treatment.OR we are looking for a kind donor to help us.

The egg donation coordinator has given us a unique code number so that anyone contacting them on our behalf is recognised in this way.
If you think you can help please call Liverpool Hewitt Fertility Centre on 0151 702 4212 and please quote the Reference Number "569R".

Thanks for reading & good luck to all!!

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LyndaNotLinda · 02/10/2016 10:10

And hiding the truth is never the right decision from the child's point of view.

There is an overwhelming body of evidence to back up what I'm saying. I'm sorry if it makes uncomfortable reading.

Thistle13 · 02/10/2016 11:17

LyndaNotLinda
It is not compulsory that you have to tell the child so it is the parents decision.
my parent's are my world and if I came from a donor egg then personally I wouldn't want to know because at the end of the day my mum is the one that carried me for 9 months and went through morning sickness, labour etc, she's the one that helped me develop into a human and brought me into the world and into a loving family.
Only for my parents whether it be from a donor egg or my mum's own I wouldn't be here at all.
So telling the child is everyone's own personal choice.

Moojay · 02/10/2016 12:48

Lyndanotlibda. It does not make for uncomfortable reading for myself. But as a woman who has been through such an emotional experience yourself surely you could show some compassion to people who are brave enough to open up and ask for help.
I recommend that you start your own thread if you feel the need to discuss it. Not derail a supportive thread for others.

Moojay · 02/10/2016 12:51

Thistle - please do not feel the need to justify yourself to Lyndanotlinda.
You do what is best for you and your family.
Concentrate on those that love and care, not those that feel the need to start debates with you on a decision that's entirely personal and situation dependant.

Mikkelsenw3612 · 30/12/2016 00:21

Hello!.. I was reading you post and I would love to help.Smile please let me know if you are still looking. Smile

Mikkelsenw3612 · 30/12/2016 00:42

I am 32yrs old, 127 pounds I'm very healthy. I have no babies in my house. Me and my fiancé live together. We work a lot. I am a medical receptionist and he is works in construction and trying to build his business in construction and renovation. I soo very want to support him on his dreams. But it's hard save when you have rent and bills to pay. So I'm trying to find an alternative to help us be able to relieve a little stress and worries. I'm willing to help if anyone is willing to help me. And finally we can plan a wedding. Thank you in advance and HAPPY NEW YEAR 2017.

Mikkelsenw3612 · 30/12/2016 01:27

I live in Chicago, IL in case. My email address is [email protected]. If u are stilling for a donor. I have black hair, hazel eyes. Hispanic/ Latina. And don't look my age. I still get Asked for my ID. I speak Spanish and English. I was born in North Carolina and grew up in Chicago,IL. I don't smoke, I rarely drink a glass or two of sweet wine just to relax. I go to the gym to stay in shape. I very girly. In my family we have girls. Some reason my dad only gave girls. My little sis is the only one who had a boy. I have a girl but she is now 17yrs old. I go to my doctor regularly and always told that I am very healthy enough to carry and donate.

Dream78 · 16/01/2017 11:47

Hi i would like to ask you if you find your anonymous' egg donor ?!! I have your same problem and i hope to have baby and i need your advice if you can

Thistle13 · 16/01/2017 21:23

Hi Dream 78, I have sent you a PM.

Dream78 · 16/01/2017 22:07

Thistle 13 😊 thank you very much for your reply , i sent you a message i hope you received it

ambergemma · 02/04/2017 13:33

Hi Ladies,

My partner and I are registered to share 50% of our eggs through our IVF as we want to give someone the opportunity of becoming parents just like our donor sperm is giving us. We have been registered with London Women's clinic since 3rd January but are still waiting to be matched to someone needing eggs. Has anyone gone through this process? We are really keen and ready to start our family but have no idea how long a match takes. As the people donating it is interesting to see the other side and people waiting for eggs and I'm struggling to understand why, when there are people like us wanting and waiting to donate, it is taking longer than we perhaps first thought?

Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
x

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