My dp has just found that he has an inguinal hernia on his left side of his groin. Its a common operation and low risk but there is a possibility that it could affect his sperm tubes and the actual mesh used to cove ther hole also has is known to cause infertility. I am destroyed as my dp has kids with someone else and now the thought that he cant give me any is heart breaking im losing my mind amd feel like im breaking down