I don't know the truth, and I doubt any of us ever will.
I was a bit when I read this in the paper today (ok, it's the NOTW, I think it's an extract from a book...may not be credible but it apparently a 'quote' from Jordy Chandler's father)
"...one night Evan went into the bedroom and found [Jackson] and Jordy under the same blanket.
"Jordan was in the foetal position with Michael hugging him from behind with his hand in my son's crotch," said Evan.
"I was extremely confused. I thought that my son was a homosexual. I left them and decided to speak later when I'd calmed down."
I would question that reaction of a father finding his son in bed with a grown man having his crotch fondled. I'm quite sure I'd rip the said man's arm off.
Having thankfully never been in that situation (and hopefully never will be), I obviously don't know for sure how I'd react.