I agree with the earlier point made by hmb that many kids are turning up to lessons (usually very late!) without the slightest intention of listening or learning anything. They seem to think they're doing you a favour just by being there. Their attitude stinks!
They have no idea how privileged they are to have an education. I feel like telling them that 130 years ago, before education became compulsory most of them would have been working 15 hour shifts in a mine or factory. My own great-grandfather was denied a grammar school education, because his parents needed him to start work as soon as possible to supplement the family's income. He had to take a lowly job in a lace-making factory and was never able to fulfil his potential. He would have loved the educational opportunities that today's kids abuse and squander!
I think teaching in a secondary school is one of the hardest jobs in today's society. How do you motivate lazy, apathetic children with serious attitude problems, who think the world owes them a living, to engage their ignorant brains and actually want to learn??
I get sick and tired of children turning up to lessons with no exercise books or equipment. I am constantly handing out paper and pens (I always ask for the pens back at the end of the lesson to try and encourage them to remember to be better prepared next time). Last week a pupil asked me for a textbook and I said "it would be nice if you said please". Her response was "I don't do please!!"
If the kids get low marks in their tests they automatically blame the teacher. "Sir it's all your fault", I've heard some of them say. Er no, I don't think so kiddo, YOU are responsible for your own learning!!!
I think something has gone very wrong with the moral fibre of our society. We're all becoming too soft as a nation and kids are gaining the upper hand. It's time to stop the rot before it's too late. All I can say working in a school is that I refuse to compromise my own high standards and stoop to their level. I am always polite and try to treat the children as I would like to be treated myself. I refuse to let children be rude to me. (I have also joined a Union in case I have to break up a fight just for my own protection).