Sorry forgot to say, as soon as DS is old enough to poke/prod ect he will be taught not to and to respect the dog.
Any fool can see, my dogs paw is the size of my DS' head ffs, and the dog could EASILY fit his mouth around the whole baby, sorry to put it in this way but it reminds me daily why the dog should not even be in the same room, a clumsy step and he could badly scratch DS, if not worse. The dog and DS can and will live together and be taught respect for each other, i had a rottie pup when my DD was born (not recommended, baby and pup together (sigh) ) who was then 3 when my DS1 was born, she was placid as the day is long but she snapped at him once as he poked her eye with a teddy, from then on he...HE was taught not to harrass her, and how to treat her with respect, and i never had another problem, no, i wasn't a relaxed owner either at the time, but he did crawl into the kitchen while i wasn't looking..cue hasty purchase of a dog gate for the kitchen
Well brought up and trained kids AND well brought up and trained family dogs are a wonderful thing to have and can give each other so much. It saddens me greatly to hear of stories like the above and to know it was more than likely preventable, and the ensuing dog hating that goes on is terrible, after the rottie attack on the baby in the pub last year i had people crossing the road to keep away from my dog, and demanding that he be muzzled, got thrown off the bus with him because people were screaming,
Backing out of this thread now because it is a sad story but infuriating as well