Don't even get me started on autism. I was a nanny for a little boy who was quite obviously autistic from a young age.
The parents weren't wealthy by any means but they just needed a bit of respite. He started at maternelle and it was a horror story.
It was awful really because he wanted desperately to fit in. Everything he said was. "Ma maîtresse" and "L'école?"
Then she, the teacher he loved so much, shut him in the cloakroom and forgot about him one day. I was standing outside the school to pick him up and he just didn't come out.
Thankfully, he did have a friend called Duncan who tried to tell me and his mum and we had to go in.
Found him locked in what was essentially a cupboard. The absolutely casual attitude the teacher had when we went to get him was horrible.
"Comportement. Il as les problèmes de comportement."
Meanwhile, he had gone from beside himself with crying to the thousand yard stare of a political prisoner.
In the end, his family went back to Ireland.
Then about two years ago, I went on a course to validate being a childminder legally and when we did the autism module or lessons it was so backward it was cruel. I distinctly remember a bit where it was blamed on, "Coldness of the mother" and it might be a good idea to take the child into a corner on their own, put bookcases around the child to isolate them from the others and overstimulation.
And learn, "Comportement."
Like you could thrash the autism out of them.