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Can anyone help me understand what this means?

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itsgettingweird · 19/06/2026 19:54

I’ve been reading that the man responsible for throwing the child into the crocodile enclosure has been placed on conditional bail as they aren’t considered fit enough for questioning.

What are the conditions likely to be? Are they monitored? Is it released to a secure hospital?

Otherwise it seems strange to me someone too unwell to be questioned but unwell enough to throw a 3yo to a crocodile is deemed well enough to be allowed to roam the streets again?

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Bunnyofhope · 20/06/2026 00:37

Nincompoo · 19/06/2026 22:42

Yes, it’s Jonty Bravery all over again - Absolutely not safe to be amongst other people but allowed to anyway because, I dunno, human rights or budget cuts 🤷🏽‍♀️

So what do you want to do with all these people? I mean in my town alone there is around 1000 people who need to be accompanied by carers to go out in the community. What do you honestly want to happen to them all? And absolutely none of them have committed a terrible crime... until they do.
But of course most of them never do. The worst crime any learning disabled person that I have worked with (100s) has committed is expose himself in a pair of women's knickers at the local cenotaph. Unsurprisingly he wasn't charged.

OnlyMabelInTheBuilding · 20/06/2026 03:20

Bunnyofhope · 20/06/2026 00:37

So what do you want to do with all these people? I mean in my town alone there is around 1000 people who need to be accompanied by carers to go out in the community. What do you honestly want to happen to them all? And absolutely none of them have committed a terrible crime... until they do.
But of course most of them never do. The worst crime any learning disabled person that I have worked with (100s) has committed is expose himself in a pair of women's knickers at the local cenotaph. Unsurprisingly he wasn't charged.

Be watched like a hawk, and never be around children where they are in touching distance. Even one of these incidences is never acceptable, cannot believe some people are suggesting we just need to accept the odd incidence for the greater good. Imagine saying this to the boy’s parents.

LittleMerrymaid · 20/06/2026 03:47

CypressGrove · 19/06/2026 23:39

What do you mean none of them were paying the attention they should be? I hope you aren't including the parents in that. I think anyone who looks to blame the parents in any way for this is the lowest of the low. It's perfectly natural to let a three year old have a little space at a zoo visit.

Im including all of the adults who were with the young man and the wee boy and if that makes me the lowest of the low then so be it.

LittleMerrymaid · 20/06/2026 03:50

mrsbowes · 19/06/2026 23:27

Yes, it's very easy to speculate and imagine what could have happened.

No. It’s very easy based on life experience to have a very good idea of how this happened.

itsgettingweird · 20/06/2026 04:30

QuaintBeaker · 19/06/2026 21:00

Hi op, I work in courts and basically everyone charged with a crime is entitled to bail unless there are no conditions that the judge or magistrates feel are enough to reduce the risk of: further offending, interfering with witnesses or fail to surrender.
It can also be refused if you've offended while on bail or breached bail previously and stuff.
There are also some crimes where bail comes with much tighter restrictions or can be refused including DV cases, attempted murder etc.

Basically, the defence will have had to come up with a set of conditions that the court are satisfied will keep the public (and sometimes the offender) safe.

This can include residential requirements, curfew, no contact with people under 18, exclusion zones etc

I would imagine in this case that the person has a very strict set of conditions and is highly unlikely to be roaming free anywhere.
If he has severe learning disabilities as someone else on here mentioned then he may well be in a residential setting with 24hr supervision.

Thankyou. Thats very informative and reassuring.

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NeedTheMoon · 20/06/2026 04:49

Elieza · 19/06/2026 20:25

awful just awful.

it’s not the first time something awful has happened though. there was a child in with some kind of gorillas.

it feels like there needs to be eight foot glass walls round these dangerous wild animals.

Is almost like the wild animals should be in the wild, but we fucked them up so now show them to people in zoos.

Humans are the ones who need walls around them.

Tooobvious · 20/06/2026 05:02

CliantheLang · 19/06/2026 19:57

I think we all know what it means: that the perp is one of the holy members of a sacred caste.

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/3512177-Julia-Long-asking-Munro-Bergdorf-about-child-exploitation?page=3&reply=85080591

I don’t know what you’re talking about (and yes, I followed the link.)

I have read that the offender has learning difficulties and was there with a carer. Presumably they’ve been bailed to the institution where they live and are cared for.

TheignT · 20/06/2026 07:41

Dweeb63 · 20/06/2026 00:20

How are the parents not victims??

Ok the child is clearly the primary victim but of course the parents are victims too!

The child is the victim. Don't dilute that.

Divebar2021 · 20/06/2026 07:58

Every aspect of the case will need to be examined in due course. Firstly the suspect and what is known about him and his previous conduct. Had he ever shown any violent / dangerous behaviour previously and were the conditions of the visit suitable based on what was known. The crocodile house will need to be examined to ensure it hasn’t failed health and safety standards in some way. The parents behaviour will also need to examined and consideration to whether their care fell below the level of what is acceptable (given they were in a crocodile house.). So all of that. It’s not a quick process.

It’s a very unusual crime and I’m sure there were some phone calls going in to the Chiefs on whatever police area this is. Police generally don’t like having to bail for serious matters so there will have been a lot of discussion about it but ultimately the rules are very strict about detention and what they can do.

Honeyhonay · 20/06/2026 08:05

TheignT · 20/06/2026 07:41

The child is the victim. Don't dilute that.

It’s not diluting anything to say the parents of a toddler watching their child be thrown into a crocodile pit, and deal with their now critically injured child, are very much also the victims in this.

ALovelyPinkUnicorn · 20/06/2026 08:08

LaurieFairyCake · 19/06/2026 23:21

People have to decide whether we accept care in the community or not. The alternative was really awful institutions, do you really think we’d do them better now?

I don’t think we would. So the alternative is we accept these occasional ‘incidences’ and try to prevent them where possible by putting safeguards in.

Unfortunately it’s very hard to accept these statistically negligible incidences because they’re so bloody tragic.

So you’d accept your child or a member of your family being gravely assaulted or killed, and think “these things happen, am really pleased the person who pushed my child in front of the train was having their day out, long may it continue!”

Zonder · 20/06/2026 08:10

ticktickticktickBOOM · 19/06/2026 23:45

It sounds like the carers, and the parents, were all on their bloody phones.

🤨
There are some cracking examples of wild speculation on this thread but this tops them all.
It sounds like you have a strong imagination. I hope you are able to tell the difference between imagination and what actually happened.

luckylavender · 20/06/2026 08:10

itsgettingweird · 19/06/2026 19:54

I’ve been reading that the man responsible for throwing the child into the crocodile enclosure has been placed on conditional bail as they aren’t considered fit enough for questioning.

What are the conditions likely to be? Are they monitored? Is it released to a secure hospital?

Otherwise it seems strange to me someone too unwell to be questioned but unwell enough to throw a 3yo to a crocodile is deemed well enough to be allowed to roam the streets again?

What does ‘don’t speculate?’ mean to you?

Divebar2021 · 20/06/2026 08:15

ALovelyPinkUnicorn · 20/06/2026 08:08

So you’d accept your child or a member of your family being gravely assaulted or killed, and think “these things happen, am really pleased the person who pushed my child in front of the train was having their day out, long may it continue!”

It’s not a choice between wanting every person with learning disabilities to be locked up and just “ accepting “ everyone walking around with no supervision. It’s a spectrum. Disabilities are a complex area and you can’t just write a rule that’s going to work for everyone. If I were the parent I’d be furious if this person had previously hurt someone but we don’t know that yet. That is the part of the speculation that’s not helpful.

itsgettingweird · 20/06/2026 08:23

luckylavender · 20/06/2026 08:10

What does ‘don’t speculate?’ mean to you?

What an odd response?!

I haven't speculated I was asking a simple question about what conditional bail was .

FWIW I have learned more about this case since.

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likelysuspect · 20/06/2026 08:34

Ophy83 · 19/06/2026 23:36

Not true. Loads of adults live in secure care homes (meaning they are locked/montored by CCTV etc). Look up DOLS. They may not be "high security " i.e. they don't have multiple guards, but they are secure.

No they're not 'secure facilities ' they're care homes that can work with a DOLs. Which is what i said, also upthread. ' look up DOLs' you say? How many DOLs applications have you made in your career? I've made plenty, I don't need to look it up!

Ophy83 · 20/06/2026 09:05

likelysuspect · 20/06/2026 08:34

No they're not 'secure facilities ' they're care homes that can work with a DOLs. Which is what i said, also upthread. ' look up DOLs' you say? How many DOLs applications have you made in your career? I've made plenty, I don't need to look it up!

I didn't say he was living in a "secure facility"! I said it was likely, given he was out with 2 carers, that he lives in a secure care home. Of course they exist. With specified numbers of carers to patients, securely locked front doors so the residents can't get out etc. If you do DOLS work then you obviously must be aware of this.

TheignT · 20/06/2026 11:55

Honeyhonay · 20/06/2026 08:05

It’s not diluting anything to say the parents of a toddler watching their child be thrown into a crocodile pit, and deal with their now critically injured child, are very much also the victims in this.

Well how far do we go? People who witnessed it, the paramedics and doctors and nurses dealing with it, the grandparents getting told?

The child is the victim.

Honeyhonay · 20/06/2026 11:58

TheignT · 20/06/2026 11:55

Well how far do we go? People who witnessed it, the paramedics and doctors and nurses dealing with it, the grandparents getting told?

The child is the victim.

A nurse is the exact same thing as a parent witnessing their very young child almost get murdered 🤦‍♀️

TheignT · 20/06/2026 11:58

itsgettingweird · 20/06/2026 08:23

What an odd response?!

I haven't speculated I was asking a simple question about what conditional bail was .

FWIW I have learned more about this case since.

I'm sure there will be a MAPPA meeting arranged as quickly as possible. This is a multi agency meeting where decisions will be made about the level of care needed. It could include the care home, the police, local authority who might be paying for his care and anyone else considered relevant to making decisions. So I'm sure there will be a lot of thought going into it.

ticktickticktickBOOM · 20/06/2026 11:59

Zonder · 20/06/2026 08:10

🤨
There are some cracking examples of wild speculation on this thread but this tops them all.
It sounds like you have a strong imagination. I hope you are able to tell the difference between imagination and what actually happened.

https://metro.co.uk/2026/06/20/suspects-carers-on-phones-boy-3-thrown-crocodile-pit-28852851/

Suspect's carers 'on their phones' when boy, 3, was thrown into crocodile pit

'They weren’t paying him much attention.'

https://metro.co.uk/2026/06/20/suspects-carers-on-phones-boy-3-thrown-crocodile-pit-28852851/

TheignT · 20/06/2026 12:00

Honeyhonay · 20/06/2026 11:58

A nurse is the exact same thing as a parent witnessing their very young child almost get murdered 🤦‍♀️

How do you know what they witnessed? How do you compare witnessing something with being attacked by a crocodile. It has to be all about the adults doesn't it. The child is the victim.

Honeyhonay · 20/06/2026 12:08

TheignT · 20/06/2026 12:00

How do you know what they witnessed? How do you compare witnessing something with being attacked by a crocodile. It has to be all about the adults doesn't it. The child is the victim.

You’re right the parents who accompanied their toddler on an air ambulance, in critical condition, thinking they may not make it and being told someone was arrested for attempted murder haven’t suffered in the slightest.
They are making it all about themselves for having the nerve to suffer.

Zonder · 20/06/2026 12:28

Did you read the article before you linked it?

You said: It sounds like the carers, and the parents, were all on their bloody phones.

No mention of the parents being on their phones so that's a nice bit of imagination.

Then the article says:
The carers of a man suspected of throwing a child inside a crocodile enclosure were ‘on their phone’ earlier in the day, according to a report.

A mum, in her 20s, said: ‘I don’t know if it was definitely him but I saw one bloke of a bigger build, he had two carers with him and they weren’t paying him much attention.

‘If it was him, his carers were maybe ten metres behind him and not paying much attention.

So the report from an onlooker isn't even sure it's the same person, and doesn't mention the parents.

Can you see what I mean about imagination?

TheignT · 20/06/2026 12:38

Honeyhonay · 20/06/2026 12:08

You’re right the parents who accompanied their toddler on an air ambulance, in critical condition, thinking they may not make it and being told someone was arrested for attempted murder haven’t suffered in the slightest.
They are making it all about themselves for having the nerve to suffer.

They are suffering but they aren't the victim. How about thinking of the innocent child in that helicopter. Accompanying sums it up.

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