Of course I would care if I got a terminal illness, monkey. However, I will accept full responsibility for MY actions. It will serve me right.
"exposed for the addicts that they are", I'm not in denial, of course smoking is an addiction. But it's one I don't want to stop.
I have never heard such sanctimonious, vicious, hysterical crap on any thread (other than the great SAHM debate). If I had come on all apologetic about how I really, reall, wanted to stop, bur I am addicted, poor me. I CAN GUARANTEE that the replys would have been sympathetic. But because I have the temerity to be honest, I am idiotic, glib, a bad person/parent/partner, etc ad infinitum.
Take a good long hard look at yourselves. Can any of the judgey brigade honestly say that they liver a perfect life, never eating what could cause health problems in the future, no alcohol, vegetarian, etc, etc, etc.
How angry would you be if someone like me who has had her family ripped apart by alcoholism (just disclosed to get the moral high ground, there like so many other posters)berated you for drinking, quoting statistics about how alcohol ruins lives and calling you selfish, stupid and sanctimonious for enjoying a drink?
Thought not.