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Archie Battersbee - Thread 4

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BreadInCaptivity · 03/08/2022 00:09

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itsgettingweird · 03/08/2022 17:49

Trying2bemum · 03/08/2022 16:07

Big ethical topics like end of life care need discussion and debate in my view. How do we make progress as a society if we can’t talk about it?

Absolutely.

Except we also have some people that think it should only be discussed if we agree with certain POVs.

Or if you don't agree you aren't empathetic.

Imo that's the wider issue than not discussing.

bellac11 · 03/08/2022 17:49

It has a lot of hateful language on it about various sections of UK society, be warned

BongoJim · 03/08/2022 17:51

thiswillbedisplayedwhenyoupost · 03/08/2022 17:44

Hollie needs to focus her anger on the online challenge that took her sons life, she is feeling guilty for not protecting him, so is clinging onto this hopelessness.
It is a sad fact that the NHS does not have an endless pit of money, what if you were told your child can't have the treatment that could save your childs life as it's has been spent on poor Archie who is brain dead, it is a decision those in the NHS have to deal with daily. We do not live in a world of endless funds now they are spending the depleted funds on solicitors. Hollies family need to take over, I know they want to support her but enough is enough, Archie's life has gone, it is is so very very sad, but his brain is dead. The NHS tried everything to save my Mum but life support was turned off and it was the heart-breaking right decision.
One small hope is that other's will know of this challenge and could save another child from this stupid 'game'.

And who was it that told us this was an online challenge?

Quia · 03/08/2022 17:52

bellac11 · 03/08/2022 17:12

I didnt really understand the UN involvement, what is the current application to the ECHR?

I can't claim to be any sort of expert, but my understanding is:-

Initially the family said they would apply to the EHCR: that would be an application based on the Human Rights Convention. Then they said they weren't going to do that because the outcome was inevitable, as the EHCR has already considered the issues in question in the Gard and Evans cases and wouldn't find anything different, so they approached the UN instead.

The UN application is based on alleged breach of the Convention on the Rights of Persons of Disability, and possibly the one on the Rights of the Child. They don't have any jurisdiction within our system because, although we've signed those conventions, we've never adopted them into our law as we have with the HR convention. This was raised in the original appeal to the Court of Appeal, who basically said no, doesn't apply here. The UN asked for more time to consider the application, the Department of Health passed the buck to the courts who basically said no.

So the idea of applying to the EHCR came back into play, but as the lawyers more or less conceded that there is little the ECHR can do it's blatantly a time wasting tactic.

bellac11 · 03/08/2022 17:53

How dreadful

georgarina · 03/08/2022 17:53

thiswillbedisplayedwhenyoupost · 03/08/2022 17:44

Hollie needs to focus her anger on the online challenge that took her sons life, she is feeling guilty for not protecting him, so is clinging onto this hopelessness.
It is a sad fact that the NHS does not have an endless pit of money, what if you were told your child can't have the treatment that could save your childs life as it's has been spent on poor Archie who is brain dead, it is a decision those in the NHS have to deal with daily. We do not live in a world of endless funds now they are spending the depleted funds on solicitors. Hollies family need to take over, I know they want to support her but enough is enough, Archie's life has gone, it is is so very very sad, but his brain is dead. The NHS tried everything to save my Mum but life support was turned off and it was the heart-breaking right decision.
One small hope is that other's will know of this challenge and could save another child from this stupid 'game'.

There's no evidence of any online challenge, Archie wasn't filming and had made multiple references to suicide and depression online. Hollie came up with the explanation that it was an internet challenge.

I'm sorry about your mum Flowers

Eeksteek · 03/08/2022 17:55

Quia · 03/08/2022 17:05

And I am troubled by the mother saying he would react when he had his hand held sometimes. I am confused about that because as far as my limited googling went - brain dead means no reflexes whatsoever. So he couldn’t have moved his hand whether intentionally or not. She might have lied to buy more time, or being having a psychotic break with the stress, but what if it’s actually true.

No, that's not correct. Reflex movements can certainly happen in people who are brain dead - www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2729975/

Indeed. I worked with patients with complete spinal lesions. No communication between legs and brain at all. Suppressing unwanted reflex movement (which your brain normally does a lot) was a big part of treatment.

It’s very likely that his hands are fixed in a resting shape by now. PTs do their best not let people get stiff, but with someone as unstable as Archie it’s got to be nearly impossible to do stretches, without de-stabilising him, and everyone’s just too focussed on basic life processes. I would imagine that just getting physical acces when another member of staff isn’t in the way doing something more vital is difficult, tbh. Any PT who a window of opportunity will be focussed on maintaining positioning and secretion management for better breathing.

Mummapenguin20 · 03/08/2022 18:02

That poor poor boy

Eeksteek · 03/08/2022 18:10

bellac11 · 03/08/2022 17:39

These are good points, I keep seeing this type of terminology as well, as if he is alive

I think it is part of the reason why this is such a problematic case. Death has become a spectrum, with modern medicine being able to halt it at a point where a patient has some semblance of living (ie a beating heart) and yet not reverse it and make progress towards life. (Someone put it really well earlier. Something like they could prolong death but not progress toward life)

When I first heard of Archie, I thought we might see ethical issues around the point of death. And we are, a bit. A lot of people are feeling that whether or not he is ‘legally dead’ and how that is determined is the issue here. But that isn’t really what matters (except to the CLC, who have an unrelated agenda) All that matters is whether treatment is in Archie’s best interests. And the courts have rightly set aside anything else.

itsgettingweird · 03/08/2022 18:15

HernamewasMary · 03/08/2022 17:31

If anyone is going to understand why she is fighting for her child, it is other mums on this site. She needs to be feel that she has done her best for him to make it easier to let him go. So she and her partner have all my love and understanding at this awful time

Read the thread.

Plenty of other brave and selfless parents on here have made the heartbreaking decision in their child's best interests not to keep them artificially alive.

Some are - understandably - still grieve if 25 years later as it's not something that just goes away.

These parents are feeling extremely uncomfortable (and I think they should feel down right insulted) at the insinuation they didn't fight for their children hard enough.

Death is finite. It's the only guarantee in life. Artificially keeping someone alive who won't recover or won't recover with a quality of life or a quality they'd be happy to accept isn't fighting or being a great parent. In many cases it's about the parents needs and wants and not the child's best interests.

As is the case with Ms Dance.

This isn't about what's best for Archie. This is about Ms dances need for control and to be very public in her life and to fight authority.

itsgettingweird · 03/08/2022 18:18

AcrossthePond55 · 03/08/2022 17:38

I think the mother has been horribly manipulated, both by that detestable 'legal' group and by this wretched 'army'. The wretched army has no real skin in the game, do they? It's not their child so they can shout as loud as they want, feel superior to people calling for common sense action to turn off life support, and then go home when it's all over. That detestable legal group is pursuing their own ends, ends having nothing to do with Archie as a human being who is no longer alive, but that are only concerned with establishing legal precedents for their anti-choice, anti-contraception platforms. Hollie is simply a 'means to an end' for them, hell, they probably don't even consider her as an actual human being.

Hollie has been told what a wonderful mother she is because she 'keeps on fighting'. That a 'good mother' never gives up on their child. She's been fed lies about just what really constitutes death, given false hopes of some sort of recovery, and she's holding on to those lies to justify continuing to fight. Because that's what a 'good mother' would do.

At this point I think her mindset is that if she doesn't keep on fighting that means she's a 'bad mother' and that ending life support equates to her 'killing her own child'. I feel so terribly sorry for her. She's doing the wrong things for the wrong reason. I actually question her mental competency at this point.

Good points.

Especially the end paragraphs. She's said the societies want to murder and execute Archie by switching off his life support ventilation and withdrawing infusions.

If she now agrees to just that course of action.......

Andouillette · 03/08/2022 18:20

Quia · 03/08/2022 17:09

Is that Pawel Stroilov? If he's definitely on the smaller firm's books, the Solicitors Regulation Authority could definitely get involved, because they do have jurisdiction over solicitors' employees. He was severely criticised by the judges in the Evans case, and there seem to be large question marks over his compliance with professional conduct standards in this one.

Yes, him. He's not been talked about much but I've caught a couple of mentions of him in connection with this case and that he was working on behalf of the smaller firm. Wish i could remember where I saw them! I will have a look around.

itsgettingweird · 03/08/2022 18:20

I think she's confusing the pituitary with the parotid gland. I believe that's under the ear and not controlled by the brain.

It is. Many brain damaged children produce too much and they can wear medicated plasters on the gland to reduce the amount of saliva they produce.

thereisonlyoneofme · 03/08/2022 18:24

I dont understand what she hopes will be achieved. Does she just want his physical body there to visit as there is no hope of him ever having any sort of life or does she truly believe that all the doctors are wrong

Hilly87 · 03/08/2022 18:26

I couldn't believe how it really isn't about what Archie would have wanted.
Reading the judgment, when mentioned early on even if there was a chance of survival Archie would be severely brain damaged or even in a vegetative state, Carter says that it would be "better than nothing".

Let the poor boy rest with dignity. Sad

whowhatwerewhy · 03/08/2022 18:26

Hollie needs to except his death , the press need to stop reporting on it .
The sad fact is he has died and no amount of court cases and press coverage will bring him back .
Sadly thousands of other families have lost children and loved ones only they have given them dignity in death .

OliveTree75 · 03/08/2022 18:28

I am glad I came across this thread. I was becoming increasingly frustrated at comments mainly on FB about this, blaming tiktok and saying he should be given more time. I was beginning to think I was the only one who thinks keeping him on life support is cruel.

Quia · 03/08/2022 18:34

Does anyone know if the EHCR has confirmed receipt of the appeal and given any indication whether it will be considered and if so when?

GreatBigExpectations · 03/08/2022 18:39

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Well said!

Zebedee999 · 03/08/2022 18:41

nolongersurprised · 03/08/2022 00:23

I don’t think there’s any need for change in laws, medical protocols or reporting or anything. The pathology here is with Hollie. This protracted circus is because of her, nothing could have stopped it

Spot on. All very sad but he's blocking a much needed bed now. Thousands of people have to turn off life support every year. Imagine if all those kept the machines going with endless court cases, all NHS beds would be full of the dead.

Wouldloveanother · 03/08/2022 18:41

whowhatwerewhy · 03/08/2022 18:26

Hollie needs to except his death , the press need to stop reporting on it .
The sad fact is he has died and no amount of court cases and press coverage will bring him back .
Sadly thousands of other families have lost children and loved ones only they have given them dignity in death .

We know what the conclusion will be - the legal avenues will be exhausted and his life support will be switched off. It’s just how everyone - including certain posters on this thread - conduct themselves until then that will give this situation a modicum of dignity. There’s not much to discuss as the above is inevitable.

Pansypotter123 · 03/08/2022 18:42

It's just been announced on ITN that the ECHR has denied their request.

Laiste · 03/08/2022 18:45

I think hearing about the legal teams pontificating about correct definitions of death is leading people to sort of forget the actual finality of the fact of his death.

As if, if we could somehow trip up the legal team enough, it would mean we can press 'revive' or 're-play' and bring him back.

itsgettingweird · 03/08/2022 18:45

So now she'll be given another date and explanation of how they plan to withdraw the infusions and ventilator.

But she'll delay trying to get him moved abroad or to a hospice? Can she make a new application at this point?

And if she does will anyone has the guts (media - I'm looking at you) to ask why in one court case she refused to have him moved for more mri scans because it would be dangerous to him.

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