Suey2, I read your post on why you're a tory and realised that I agree with almost everything you said and yet I'm a labour voter!
I actually think there's an enormous section of society who agree on so many principles yet they perceive different parties to be the ones offering them.
I agree wholeheartedly that there is a distasteful elitism within the labour party. Whilst I voted for TB and liked him as a PM, I was under no illusion that he would have thought me equal. I'm well educated but choose to SAH and I live in the countryside. New Labour would rather I was working f/t to support the economy. John Major would have respected me more
However, I cannot bring myself to vote Tory because IME, there is a huge chunk of both the Tory party and Tory voters who acually like the varying levels and divisions in society. They want someone to look down on. They enjoy (in their opinion) that they are wealthier/more refined/better parents etc. They read the DM and fret about house prices and crime whilst never considering why things like anti-social behaviour occur. They live in there on world, concerned about their community, their family, their taxes without any concern for great sections of our society who are desperately struggling. It makes me so and
For the record, I would never suggest that that all Tories felt/acted this way so I couldn't 'despise' a huge section of society. It's just that so many in your party do. Also, I am fortunate enough to be financially comfortable so this post isn't written with bitterness.