Christina had I still lived in London I could've rung up a bpas clinic, made an appointment. Attended the appointment, probably with my dp. Recovered and moved on. That's relatively simple.
When I found out I was pregnant in NI I panicked. Rang Marie Stopes, found out the cost was too prohibitive. Cried on the phone to them. Googled frantically, found BPAS which would be slightly cheaper even with flights and travel. Tried to figure out how I could make up the money. Googled a bit more, found Women on web and tried to weigh up whether I could send off for pills or whether I should travel. Realised after much anxiety, travelling was a better option. Tried to figure out what I could sell or do without to make up the money. Wondered if I could still afford Christmas. Housesat for my friends, kids in tow, so I could eat their food and use their utilities and save a bit more. Became very depressed and left all childcare and housework to my DP. Tried to make it through Christmas with a big, fake smile.
Eventually came across ASN who offered to cover much of the cost of the procedure and guided me through booking flights etc. Cried again on the phone. Finally, booked procedure with BPAS in Merseyside.