She certain can be trapped in getting a divorce though and she can't be a rabbi and she probably has to support some husband who never works or looks after the children as he's praying all day and there was that relatively recent publicity over the fact one of their schools said women should not drive. It is not a greatly non sexist culture.
Separately this article astounded me - two thirds of Ethiopian marriages started by the man kidnapping a teenage girl and impregnating her. Okay, occasionally but most? I did see a youtube programme about Khazah grabbing of women but this seems worse:
"Victory for teenage bride who was married by force
In “marriage by abduction”, pubescent girls are kidnapped by gangs of men to be impregnated so that consent for marriage can be demanded from their parents
Ethiopia has been ordered to pay £100,000 to a woman who was kidnapped and raped when she was 13 in an ancient, illegal custom of marrying children by force.
Human rights groups hope that the ruling will help to end “marriage by abduction”, in which pubescent girls are kidnapped by gangs of men to be impregnated so that consent for marriage can be demanded from their parents. A survey by the UN in 2003 found that up to two thirds of marriages in Ethiopia start this way.
The ruling by the African Union’s commission for human and people’s rights (ACHPR) is the end of a 15-year struggle for justice for the woman, known as Makeda. Her attacker, Aberew Jemma Negussie, was sentenced in 2003 to ten years in prison for rape, but was acquitted on appeal because, the judge said, Makeda had failed to prove her virginity.
The ACHPR, based in Gambia, said that Ethiopia’s handling of the case had sent a message that “girls and women can be abducted, raped, and forced into marriage with impunity.”
Equality Now, a rights group that helped to take the case to Gambia, called the ruling a triumph for women and girls in Ethiopia. “We hope the Ethiopian government takes it seriously,” Jacqui Hunt, one of the charity’s directors, said.
The stigma associated with the loss of virginity means that parents often give kidnappers permission to marry their daughters. Makeda’s case was unusual because her father stood by her and alerted police, Ms Hunt said. Negussie kidnapped her a second time, however, when after he was released on bail, and forced her to sign a marriage contract.
When Negussie was jailed in 2003, four accomplices were sentenced to eight years each. Their convictions were quashed a few months later on the ground that it was impossible to rape a girl who was not a virgin. Neither Makeda nor her lawyers were informed of the appeal.
The ACHPR said that the appeal judge had erred because of his personal belief “that rape could only be committed on a virgin”. “By failing to recognise that virginity is not a prerequisite of the offence of rape, and that the law should protect every woman from rape, the court acted arbitrarily in violation of [Makeda’s] rights,” the judgment said. The ACHPR ordered the Ethiopian government to file fresh charges against Negussie." "