Splatter - you are very kind to spare a thought for the family of the perpetrator .
I know a family who are in this exact situation - their young teenage son killed another teen .
They are good people who raised their children well , just like everyone on this thread . The father lost his job. The whole family had to move to another area as their other children were victimised because of what their brother had done . They changed their names . Their lives revolved around visiting their son in an institution.
Yes their son eventually got out on license , but he had no ability to function outside . Despite their very best efforts, he soon committed a ( very minor ) offence and was back inside an adult prison .
It's nearly destroyed all their lives too.
I'm not trying to take away from the loss experienced by the victims family BTW. Just saying they are victims too .
The pupils who witnessed this in school will be traumatised too . And the poor teachers who have to counsel them.
Such a tragedy for everyone involved .