OK, I'm going to bite.
Disclaimer. I'm currently living in Saudi, as a Western lady.
Yes, the punishments can be harsh.
However I have more sympathy with Raif Badawi and Ali Mohammed al-Nimr, as they have fallen foul of ambiguous laws on free speach.
The stance on alcohol here is clear. There is corporal punishment for importing or being caught with alcohol. Yes, home brew is rife in compound living, but you'd have to be pretty mad to try and take it to a different compound, given the fact you are likely to be searched driving out then back in again. The stance on drugs is also clear, capital punishment is possible. Like the Americans also have capital punishment???!!!
Women can easily go out on their own, or in a group with other women. The shopping Malls are full of abaya'ed women. The western ones with hair uncovered, the locals with a head scarf, and often a veil. But without having to be chaperoned. Whilst it is not 50:50, women can and do have jobs (I've seen cashiers and HR personal who are local). They can also go to school - tho it will be a girls only school during primary and secondary. My sons preschool is mixed.
I cannot drive, correct. But there are 1001 taxis, if you are fortunate enough to have the money.
Yes, I need my husbands permission to travel. But what about me wanting to leave the UK with the kids to go on holiday. Is it not recommended I carry a letter from their father???
While life is very, very different here to the UK, like anywhere it has pros and considered. You respect the people who have taken you into their country, and there is a great life, with good £ at the end of it due to the tax position over here. So what if wages are low. It's all yours to keep, and food is cheep, as is electricity (for aircon) and petrol.